Listen to the song and write the adverbs or expressions of frequency that you hear.
Give the students time to fill in the gaps, and if necessary, listen twice.
VERSE 1 Once in a while, although she would smile,
it usually meant she was thinking of him.
Though sometimes we talked, more often than not,
I didn't really hear what she had to say.
CHORUS Now and then,
since we're apart,
I wonder how to mend a broken heart.
VERSE 2 I was never there when she needed me,
and constantly I was out drinking with friends.
I was always the one who was out having fun,
yet she rarely complained about being ignored.
VERSE 3 Occasionally she sits under our tree,
Often to see if I come back to her.
By now she should know that I'm not coming home.
In fact now I hardly ever think about her.
Post-listening activities
In the last chorus there is one slight difference. Did you notice it? Check the lyrics below
But now and then,
since we're apart,
I wonder how to mend HER broken heart
How does this change the meaning of the song?
The first time we hear the chorus, we think that it is the singer's heart that needs to be
mended; we think that the singer is sad because the relationship is over.
But after we hear the last verse and the last chorus we realise it is the woman's heart
that needs to be mended; it is the woman who is sad and the singer “hardly ever”
thinks about her.
How do you feel about the narrator? Is he a good person? How do you feel about the woman?
On the one hand, he realises that he has made the woman suffer and he wants to fix
the situation, but on the other hand, he was not a very good boyfriend.
Some students may feel sorry for the woman, others might pity her because she is still
waiting for the narrator to return.
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