classmates, many of my male classmates called me delusional as they thought I was
exaggerating. Having such experiences drove me to feminism, in order to understand how
Iranian women have been suppressed through history by various institutions such as the law.
The Fight for Gaining a Place in Feminism
After finishing my B.A in English literature, I started my master’s education in the same
major, and I found a job as an English instructor in a language institution. As soon as I started
my M.A, I made a plan to leave Iran when I finished to study gender studies for my Ph.D. I
became interested in the field mostly because of my situation and personal experiences. I looked
around me and I saw my sister living with a psycho; I saw my aunt living with an old man who
preferred his mother to his wife and children, and I saw me, a twenty-year-old woman who had
been abused emotionally, physically, and sexually many times in her life. Hence, I started to read
about feminism. I demanded guidance from my professors; however, not only did they have
limited knowledge, but they also misled me with misinformation about women’s studies. Many
of my professors thought that the field of women’s studies was nonsense, and I was only
interested because of my unhappiness. Many others thought that I was being seduced by western
advertisements on the subject. I decided to ignore them and downloaded as many resources as I
could. I started with The Second Sex by Simon de Beauvoir; I familiarized myself with the waves
of feminism, and then I started to read manifestos and numerous pieces of literature from
feminist thinkers of each wave. I taught myself gender studies concepts, the aesthetic of
feminism, and the situation of Iranian women through history. I developed an interest in writing
essays and attended conferences on women’s studies in Iran. No professor in my university ever
taught me how I should write an essay. Therefore, I decided to read the instructions from books
and to follow them with the proper format. When I finished my first essay, I asked one of my
professors to review it for me and the only feedback he gave me was a thumbs down.
I realized that I needed to be more sophisticated and knowledgeable; thus, I spent more
time on my essays. As I wrote, I thought about all those women that I have known in my life
who had been repressed, silenced, and abused. After months of working, I started to search for an
appropriate journal for my essays, and I found the Journal of International Women Studies
(JIWS) on the Scopus list. The Journal's interests and ranking got my attention, so I decided to
send my essays to them. After two or three months, the Journal sent me feedback highlighting
the strengths and weaknesses of my essays and asking me to work on them and resubmit. I was
so happy that my essays were reviewed, because I had thought I would not be sophisticated
enough in this field. The Journal's comments were very helpful to me because it was the first
time that someone taught me how I should write an essay. I did as the Journal reviewers asked of
me and after months of revisions, they finally agreed to publish my essays. Later that year, I
attended three international conferences that were held in Iran, as a published lecturer.
Hoping that I would be able to get a scholarship, I decided to apply to some American and
Canadian universities in Gender Studies. Even though there were so many obstacles in my way, I
prepared everything that was necessary for these universities. The price for the IELTS and GRE, the
application fees, and my documents’ English translations, was very high for me, and I could not
afford them; however, I worked as hard as I could to earn the money. Besides, I needed three
recommendation letters from my professors for each university, and it was very difficult for me to
find professors who agree to recommend me, because most of them did not want me to continue my
education in gender studies. They offered help only if I continued in English literature. With
difficulty, I found three professors who agreed to write recommendations for me, and I was finally
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